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Meditation
What are your morning rituals? What does the first hour of your day look like? My morning routine mainly involves reflecting on past events, doing a small amount of pushups (though not always consistently), and practicing gratitude for everything. During the first hours, I usually read uplifting books—whether motivational or spiritual—to start the day.
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Learning To Say No
How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals? Saying no to someone or something can be a tricky thing, especially when you are considerate of others’ feelings. However, learning to say no is necessary to avoid behaviors and lifestyles that can be self-harmful in the long run. In the…
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Breaking Barriers
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Writing
What experiences in life helped you grow the most? One thing that has helped me grow is creative and imaginative writing. I always enjoy expressing my thoughts on paper. One thing led to the other and I started this blog to share my poetry with the world. But it metamorphosed into something bigger. I have…
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Destiny
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Be Yourself
What advice would you give to your teenage self? Be wild and fearless, but be kind and genuine, be hopeful and honest, and be loving and compassionate. Do things that bring you joy, peace, and laughter. Work hard, also work smart. Make acquaintances, keep friends. Care for your well-being and that of your loved ones.…
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Kind People
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Relationships
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Egusi Soup
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Fun Things
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My First Name
Write about your first name: its meaning, significance, etymology, etc. My first name is Okechukwu, which comes from the southern Nigerian Igbo tribe. It means my portion or share from God! Most Igbo names come from situations and experiences people have encountered. I can expand the name to: Okechukwunyerem!—which means the share I received from…
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Dream Jobs
What’s your dream job? I would love to be a writer and am working toward that. My writing started back in high school. Then I liked playing with words and wrote love poems. I’m also interested in becoming a travel blogger. It is a dream to travel around the world, particularly in Africa, to document…
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A Good Leader
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Weapons
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Respect
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Lions
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Coke with Primates
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Nuts
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Leader’s Frontline
Come up with a crazy business idea. I had an idea some time ago. It wasn’t business anyway, just a random idea. Can we agree to let each warring nation have their presidents fight first before sending in the soldiers? Doing so will save many souls from unnecessary deaths because no leader will want to…
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My Father’s Book Collections
Describe an item you were incredibly attached to as a youth. What became of it? I was fond of my father’s book collections. Most of them I have read several times. The books were kept in the countryside, and each time I went home, I had something to read. The collection included Shakespeare and Oscar…
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Travel the World
What is your mission? It has been my dream to travel around the world—to see the sunset in different climes and nations, go up the peaks, sniff the pure air, watch the wildlife, swim with mild stream currents, dance with natives, smile at strangers, write stories of good places and people, dream, fall in love…
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Don’t Worry, Live!
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Dance
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Live and Let Live
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Live in The Present
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Unconditional Love
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University of California, Berkeley
What colleges have you attended? Before heading to America for my master’s, I did my diploma and undergraduate education at Abia State Polytechnic and the University of Uyo, both in Nigeria. Currently, I’m completing my graduate education at America’s premier public institution—the University of California Berkeley. Cal, or UC Berkeley as it is called, is…
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Overthinking
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Sunset—Nostalgia
What makes you feel nostalgic? There’s that feeling of nostalgia when the sun drifts away from the hamlets, sinking, sailing through the clouds like a golden phantom, spherical like a child’s playball. Sometimes when it’s hot we wish away the sun and when it’s cold we wish the sun’s heat could warm our land. It’s…
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Creative Writing
How are you creative? I started this blog in 2012; I wasn’t sure what to make of it. However, I knew that I wanted to use it as an avenue to express my thoughts and creativity. Writing poetry and narrative essays also exhibited my creative pursuits and has been instrumental to my academic endeavors. Talking…
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Friendship 2
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Character
Are you a good judge of character? Attitude is everything I don’t think anybody can judge a character perfectly. However, I’m convinced that character is a function of people’s relationships with others and their environment. For instance, a well-raised child knows how to respect others and to be kind to people and their environment. Such…
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Great Mentors
Describe a man who has positively impacted your life. I could write an epistle for this. I’m lucky to have mentors and professors who impacted me positively. They have been a beacon of hope for my research and academic endeavors. I have learned a lot in a few months through their guidance and supervision. I…
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Writing
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Hopeful
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Alone Time
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Cities I like to visit
What cities do you want to visit? I would love to visit many cities around the world. Excluding African, American, and Canadian cities, I would love to visit Paris, Edinburgh, Dubai, Delhi, Mexico City, St. Petersburg, Shanghai, Glasgow, Warsaw, Madrid, London, Berlin, Rome, Oslo, Tallinn, Amsterdam, Luxembourg, Bangkok, Perth, Auckland, Hong Kong, Singapore, Brasilia, Riyadh,…
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Long Distance Traveling
Tell us about your first day at something — school, work, as a parent, etc. My first time traveling to America was long and tiring. I will repost a slightly edited first post after I arrive from Frankfurt: Forgive me; I arrived at UC Berkeley from Frankfurt yesterday after sitting on a plane for 13…
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Teaching
Have you ever performed on stage or given a speech? I haven’t performed on stage or given a speech in a big setting, but I have presented papers in classrooms, conferences, and seminars. Also, I count teaching as an art and form of performance. There’s an audience and then the teacher who performs the art…
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Push-Ups & Squats
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Generosity
What is something others do that sparks your admiration? Spare a coat, clothe the nakedSpare a spoon, feed the hungry I wrote those poetic lines some years ago. Each time I see it I realize that it’s not a wholesome definition of generosity—because it focuses on material giving. Generosity goes beyond giving money or gifts.…
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Worrying
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Further Education
What positive events have taken place in your life over the past year? A lot of good has happened in the past year. One of the most significant is starting my graduate degree at the best public university in the world—the University of California Berkeley on full-ride. Here, I have met some of the best…
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Deer
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Berkeley, California
Do you have a favorite place you have visited? Where is it? Berkeley, in California, is a beautiful place to live. It’s a hilly town with an abundance of greens and orderly streets. In this city is the pioneer and famous University of California campus. There are wild turkeys, deer, squirrels, and bobcats and lots…
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Morning
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Letting Go
What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever had to make? Why? I have learned to let go of events, situations, people, actions, and things that don’t serve me. Letting go involves forgiving myself and those who hurt me. However, it doesn’t mean I forget the wrongs or want to deal with them anymore. Forgiveness brings me…
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Egusi Soup
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Learning
If you didn’t need sleep, what would you do with all the extra time? I would study with the extra time. I’ll also spend some time exercising. Learning—reading and writing will improve my mental and academic health while exercising will support my physical and spiritual health. The aim is to have a wholesome experience.